A Tibetan Tapestry





Cherry at 19 in India



This is a heartfelt account of life amongst Tibetan refugees. Based on letters posted home from India in 1964 when I was eighteen, it is a true and personal record of the early days when Tibetans had fled their homeland. With an inherent grasp of Buddhism from my mother, one of the first western Buddhists in England, I obtained a job as assistant to Freda Bedi at her most unusual school for Incarnate Lamas. Expressed with humour and sensitivity, the narrative also covers time spent visiting a road working camp, taking  a trip with a future film star to the Taj Mahal, a pilgrimage to Bodh Gaya, plus much more.

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The Tibetan headmaster, Mr. Lungtok, took me to see the encampment where the road workers lived. It involved walking several miles further into the mountains. The labourers lived in tents because they moved camp as the road progressed. I had expected conditions to be bad, and they were. The men were all at work, and the women and children came out of their tents to greet the visitors politely, though there was a general air of disconsolation. It was March; the end of winter, and a lot of slushy mud lay around. Some youngsters with extended bellies looked to be suffering from worms. Others showed the high colour associated with TB.

          A thin elderly man, seriously ill, lay uncovered on the ground. A doctor had been called but hadn’t come, which was not surprising if he had to trudge the same distance as we did.

 “What is wrong with him?” I asked.

          “He is dying,” came the reply. Silly of me to ask! Mr. Lungtok added matter-of-factly, “He is an old one.”

          There was nothing we could do, and not much more to see. Blasting for the roadwork could be heard in the mountains. Rain clouds threatened, so we turned back and Mr. Lungtok suggested we stop for a bowl of noodle soup at a makeshift Tibetan restaurant. It seemed a good idea to give them the business. Two bowls of soup arrived with two pairs of chopsticks and I wondered how to manage it! The only thing to do was to follow Mr. Lungtok’s example. I put the bowl to my mouth and slurped noisily while stirring the noodles to the surface with the chopsticks. It tasted deliciously of monosodium glutamate.

          On arriving back at the school, we found to our surprise that Chöling Tulku, who had been living next door in Delhi, was awaiting our return. At Freda’s instigation, the Ranee of Patiala had agreed that Chöling Tulku and his entourage could lodge at her empty house in Simla, so he had arrived with his group of twenty people. But when he had gone to the house, the chokidar (gardener-caretaker) would not allow them in as he had received no instruction from the Ranee herself. Could Mr. Lungtok and I go together and translate, and explain the situation?

          Tired as we were, we set off on another hike to the Ranee’s house. It was like a palace and the caretaker seemed entirely in his rights not to allow a bunch of refugees to camp in it. The Indian servants’ quarters at the side appeared to have been empty for a long time, and I suggested it might have been the intention that they lodge there. Chöling Tulku was happy with that, but still the caretaker was having none of it without the Ranee’s approval, which seemed fair enough. A telephone call to Freda, who was back at Dalhousie, would solve the problem, but the phone lines were down and there didn’t seem much hope of them being repaired any time soon. I decided I may as well cut my visit short by a few days and return to Dalhousie and tell Freda the problem, though this meant I would not have time to visit the grave of my great-grandfather. Never mind!

          Chöling Tulku walked with me to the bus station, but he walked so slowly I feared I would miss the bus to Chandigarh, from where I could take a train to Pathankot. I tried to hurry him along, not wanting to leave him, but not wanting to miss the bus. He couldn’t go any faster. He patted his chest and with a laugh said the only words I ever heard him speak in English. “I am fat lama!” After an anxious while he got out his rosary and said some serious prayers as we continued walking. Was that going to help, I wondered? They surely did, for when we got to the square the bus was still there, with its engine running. The driver waved us aboard before roaring away down the hill.

          At Chandigarh station, when I asked for a ticket to Pathankot, the man on the other side of the glass barrier went away and consulted with his superior. They could not understand that I wanted a third-class ticket and was travelling alone. In their eyes, it was bad enough that I did not have enough money for a first-class ticket. But also, what would I do during the afternoon while waiting for the night train? I didn’t like to admit that I had planned to slip into the First Class Rest Room and have a quiet nap.

          San Dev, the dapper young ‘In Charge’, insisted he take me on a tour of the wonders of Chandigarh. When I explained I had previously seen them, he took me home to his mother and sisters where I experienced firsthand the joys of living in a Le Corbusier designed concrete box with yard! His family showed immense kindness to me, a complete stranger. They fed me and gave me a bowl of water to wash with, then insisted I sleep on a bed in a darkened room, which was probably just as well since the language barrier limited conversation.

          In the evening San Dev returned from his afternoon shift and took me by tonga back to the station. He was very pleased with himself because he had found someone to accompany me on my journey through the night. I would travel in the company of ‘The Inspector of Ticket Inspectors’.

          With my bag balanced on the head of a porter, San Dev led me across the railway lines to a solitary carriage in the middle of the criss-crossing rails. With some difficulty he passed me and my baggage up through the doorway to a charming middle-aged Indian. I felt a little nervous. Was I being kidnapped? Was this the proper train? Oh yes, they assured me, it certainly was. In no time at all, with a rattle and a jolt that nearly threw us across the carriage, we were hooked up to the rest of the train. It was all very curious, but the Inspector, Mr Tikka, was a charismatic and intelligent companion who spoke perfect English. He had a bodyguard, a large rather simple fellow, who lounged on the luggage rack above me and giggled as he dropped sticky sweet papers on my head, until Mr. Tikka told him off.

          We had plenty to talk about on the journey because my great-uncle had been something big in the Indian Railways and travelled about in his own carriage. My great-grandfather, whose grave I had missed seeing, possessed a gift for water divining and in later life found water for the Indian Railways in the bleak deserts of Baluchistan. They could only lay the railway tracks where there was water for the steam engines. Camping in his tent there (before the days of photography) he painted atmospheric watercolours to record the experience. He died at Simla in 1918.

          Safely back at Pathankot I met up with two Australian girls who had been on the same train, so I introduced them to the delights of an English breakfast in the First Class Restroom. Then, feeling like a travelling pro, I took the bus up the twisty mountain road to Dalhousie. I never heard the end of the negotiations with the Ranee and Chöling Tulku, but I expect something got sorted out. 

 

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